Saturday 26 July 2014

646. Life - Parents

Life - Parents

We are living in this world. The way we live indicates whether we live as valuable man, common man, addresses man, or etc.,

Life is a great struggle for existence. If we live for 50 years nearly 25 years we spend in sleeping. 10 years in education and search for a job. If we sleep in the afternoon also 5 more years we waste. Hardly we live for 10 years. In that short span of life, we commit many mistakes, go courts, fight with other people, because of our ignorance we lose a lot, because of misunderstanding we will lose with our own family members, etc. Sometimes we get doubt what is the purpose of this life. Why have we come into this world? After so much of struggle, at the end, if we analyse or summarise nothing will be there. 

Struggle is a must to live in this world. We cannot understand the value, or depth of this world without struggle. Even if we grow up, ours mindset will be like that of a child. Anybody can deceive us, cheat us, exploit us, misguide us, pay less, and so on. We feel if these many crores of rupees are with us we will be very happy. It is our mistake. The rich too are not happy because they have to pay funds.

Work is a must. Otherwise we get bored up. We will not get respect. Simply coming into this world and going out of this world is meaningless. Then what is the difference between an animal and a human being. To live we have to work. If the work is as per ours choice or passion we will be the happiest persons in this world.

To live in this world we should have many qualities;
1.      Common sense
2.      Purpose
3.      Always think about ours aim to come into this world
4.      Even if rich, we should do minimum day to day work otherwise we will be treated as handicapped.
5.      Understand the people and their psychology
6.      We should not deceive but at least defend ourselves from the deception.
7.      Procreate
And many more.

For living in this world TIME is very important. Time that is gone is gone forever. Even if we lose lakhs of rupees we can earn back, but we cannot earn back “time”.  Many people have said about time.
“Time is money”
“Time is valuable”
“Time and tide waits for none”
“Time lost is lost forever”

In life the youth is such a thing we get everything at a time. Sex, power, education, adventures, achievements, and so on. They come together like a flood. Once the flood is over, once the youth is over rest of life we will be simply sitting at home. No work to do. Very few to talk to us. Little respect.   After crossing an age there will be nothing to achieve. All of a sudden we become alone. It is the best time either to lose or win. If we don’t have self control we lose. If we are well disciplined we can achieve something so that we can be something in this world. Then we realize that we have unnecessarily wasted our time.

We should have commonsense. It can only enable us to prioritise our decisions. A common man makes silly things as principal subjects. A great man can well prioritise the events of this life. Just because of not having commonsense most of our people, the journey is like the wooden horse that children play.

Secondly purpose is the main thing that encourage us to live long. Without purpose life becomes meaningless.

We say many things about life. But one thing enough to make our life meaningful. I made one quotation of Vivekananda the ultimate purpose of this life;

Wherever you are you prove to yourself, that you are the greatest.

We do many things in this world. We go to space, other planets, conquer the enemies, occupy many countries, etc., but we are mentally very far away. Today is the world where we can get whatever we want but mentally we are not close each other. At least in a life time we cannot come close with at least one man. One great man said;

            Insaan aasmaa tak pahunch gayaa, magar insaaniyath ki manjil se bahut door hai.

If  our parents can give that knowledge, experience, how to identify people, how to get the works done, and so on, every next generation need not start life from A, B, C, D… That is why every generation is not developing cumulatively.
Eg., Deheeru Bai Ambani started his life from grass root level. By the he handed over his empire to his sons, it was 1,60,000 crores. Mukesh’s life which is his family’s second generation started his life from that figure and going up in life. In such people’s life from generation to generation they will be multiplying. Life becomes thrilled.
But in a middle class man’s life, every generation will be first generation.
But a poor man’s life even not that the same generation but only declining.

For a rich man children are investment. Why is it so?
A rich man educates his children, his business empire, how to handle people, how to enrich themselves, and so on. To him investing for anything on the children will be like investing on a factory. It multiplies. That is why the rich become the rich.

For a poor man children are income.
A poor man employs his children in a field as a worker, and whatever he brings should be shared by the entire family. Even if all the members are earning even then the total amount will be very little. If he has 4 acres of land, when he divides that it will be in fragments. The next it will further fragmented. Sometimes that fragments will be sold out for medical bills, in the second generation itself they will paupers. That is why the poor become the poor.

For a middle class man children are burden.
The people who study and get jobs can be called middle class people. They don’t have lands for cultivation. They are purely dependent on salary. He cannot invest on  his children, or he cannot send his children to coolie work. It is neither hell nor heaven. He hangs in between.

It addition this all the Indians depend on gods for help, for miracles to be done and their fate should be turned up so that they can become millionaires. Whether  these gods can bring change in these people’s   lives or not no one can say, but it is certain that these gods can become rich from the offerings given by these gullible people.
Lord Venkateswara’s annual income crosses 1000 crores. What does he do?
Of course people are giving so he takes.
Similarly the story of other gods.


One more example.
If we want to buy  ladyfingers  for we see many things.
Whether they fresh or old stock? 
Whether they are delicate or hard?
If they are not touched by pests or other creatures?
And so on for hundreds of questions just for Rs.5/- for 230 gms. But before bringing children into this world no one analyses whether they have enough to eat? If a child comes into this world, can they feed them? Educate them? Give medical aid? Get a job to them? That is why producing children has become main occupation us. Our cinemas are also about love and marriage. In any film the ultimate goal is marriage.
No father who can give minimum requirements to a child like education, medical aid, train properly, guidance, encouragement how to fight in this world to achieve his goals, etc. has no right to bring a child into this world.
No father has right to handover poverty to his child.

Actually what is this life?
For what purpose we have come into this world?
Is it the mistake of our parents?
Can   worshipping gods solve our problems?
In India we are not treated like human beings. Even after 67 years of independence still we have per capita debt of Rs. 25,000/-
Of course our rulers are our own people, our own breed. How can we expect that miracles can be done.

One more thing of this great nation is the students are after girls, the people are after gods, the politicians are after money and power, the business people are after money and exploitation, …
Then who can save this India.







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